You guys shall stop the war
Assalamualaikum wbt.
Ahhhh! I'm seriously cannot understand with the girls in my class. Can't you guys just be friends? No fighting no hurting? Astaghfirullahalazim.
As i told you, I've deactivated my twitter account and out of the blue i feel like reactivate it again to read what had happened on my timeline. So, just now I reactived my acc back hihi (Just for a while okay) Frankly speaking, i was so shocked to see my classmates' tweet. Oh puhleeasee! What is wrong with you guys? Well, i have to admit that i am not a maksum (people that does not do any sin such as malaikat and anbiya) or perfect neither you too. But, we should at least try our best to improve ourselves, improve our akidah and always update our iman. No, im not an ustazah nor a preacher, im just a normal caliph of Allah and it is my responsibility to give advice and remind you when you are wrong.
Base on what I see and read, I shall say:
Why don't you be like this:
a: Weh, kau tahu kan aku gaduh dengan bla bla bla. Dulu ingat lagi dia selalu belanja aku, tolong aku masa susah. Dia baik sangat. Menyesal jadi macam ni. Ni salah aku. Ya Allah ampunilah dia. Lindungi dia. Dia sahabat yang baik untuk aku.
Is it so hard to do so? Pray for your friends even though you guys had an argue. Try to solve it rationally and not emotionally! Arasoh? Always be husnudzon (think positively about others). Prophet Muhammad never taught to his ummah to argue and hurt others feeling. Think and muhasabah ourselves :) May Allah grant you guys Jannah, Allahumma amin. :)
Ahhhh! I'm seriously cannot understand with the girls in my class. Can't you guys just be friends? No fighting no hurting? Astaghfirullahalazim.
As i told you, I've deactivated my twitter account and out of the blue i feel like reactivate it again to read what had happened on my timeline. So, just now I reactived my acc back hihi (Just for a while okay) Frankly speaking, i was so shocked to see my classmates' tweet. Oh puhleeasee! What is wrong with you guys? Well, i have to admit that i am not a maksum (people that does not do any sin such as malaikat and anbiya) or perfect neither you too. But, we should at least try our best to improve ourselves, improve our akidah and always update our iman. No, im not an ustazah nor a preacher, im just a normal caliph of Allah and it is my responsibility to give advice and remind you when you are wrong.
Base on what I see and read, I shall say:
- Both sides should have a SELF-REFLECT
- Even though you guys wanna face to face, for me it won't work. Trust me, it will get more worst.
- Both sides should apologize and forgive each other.
- If one of you tweeted a bad things that may hurt your feeling, just IGNORE! Why should you care about his/her tweet. hello? Twitter is universal okay. Tak semestinya tweet dia untuk awak.
- Each time you get offence or get mad, ISTIGHFAR! Rememeber Allah. Bear in your mind that whatever you say, do or think, Allah know it well!
- If you really can't stand about his/her tweet, unfollow them or just block them or DEACTIVATE you account? Easy isn't it?
- Stop gossiping and talk bad about others even though you dislike them. For example:
Why don't you be like this:
a: Weh, kau tahu kan aku gaduh dengan bla bla bla. Dulu ingat lagi dia selalu belanja aku, tolong aku masa susah. Dia baik sangat. Menyesal jadi macam ni. Ni salah aku. Ya Allah ampunilah dia. Lindungi dia. Dia sahabat yang baik untuk aku.
8. If anyone hate or dislike you, just be patient and have faith on Allah. Keep praying that the person will receive hidayah from Allah swt. And keep doing good to them. *peace*
9. If you really cannot endure your madness, try to close you eyes, take a deep breath, count from 1 until 10, says Astagfirullahalazim 3x, selawat 3x, Au'zubikalimatillahitammati min syarrima kholaq 3x and last but not least, recite Al-fatihah *Smile*
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